I am sorry for creating a group chat with Elaine, Changing, and Bee.
I understand that it makes you feel insignificant to be treated like you're interchangeable and all that matters is that you're female.
You probably already feel like that's all anyone sees you as no matter how much you try to prove you have other things to offer.
You have strength in numbers but you cannot be treated like a number and I apologize for doing so.

i appreciate that youre being honest that you know how its belittling instead of pretending like you did nothing wrong, which is what you did when i accused you of this very thing.

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i appreciate that youre being honest that you know how its belittling instead of pretending like you did nothing wrong, which is what you did when i accused you of this very thing.

i take this back. after seeing the other thread i now know that none of it's sincere

Dave.